When Things Fall Apart, Part II

February 25th, 2010

When Things Fall Apart by Rev. June Miller

Part II

     Some years ago I walked into a nursery to buy some plants for my garden.  Since there wasn’t a crowd, the owner and I began to talk.  He shared with me that he had been laid off from Boeing and that it was the best thing that ever happened to him.  He told me that Boeing had provided him with a very good living, but it wasn’t what he really wanted to do with his life.  However, on his own, he wasn’t able to leave his comfort zone of a good job with great benefits.  But when he was laid off, he finally did what he had wanted to do all his life.  He grows plants.  His nursery has thrived and he is happy.

     When our world seems to fall apart we often look back, wishing for what we had before.  Even if our lives had been full of difficulties and struggles, we’ll often take that over the unknown.  That’s the problem with comfort zones.  They are known.  They aren’t filled with “what if’s.”  And “what if” is usually a question we ask that is filled with all the possibilities of what might go wrong – if we step beyond our comfort zone.

      Have you ever deeply asked yourself, “What is most important to me?”  Of course, if you have young children, you’re answer will probably have something to do with them.  Our answer to the question often involves something that is of great concern to us now.  But what if you asked the same question, “What is most important to me?” and asked from a lifetime perspective?  Can you imagine yourself at a very old age looking back over your life?  What would you wish you had done or been or changed – inwardly?  For without a response that involves your inner life, the outer expression simply can’t be done.

     Ask the question and take a long time pondering.  In May, we will have a workshop about living your true purpose. Between now and May, live the question.  Let the question take you where it will.  Don’t try to answer it.  Just let it be alive in you.  And then you’ll be ready.  Ready for what?  You’ll see.

When Things Fall Apart

February 25th, 2010

When Things Fall Apart by Rev.  June C. Miller

      When life falls apart, when someone close to us dies, when we lose a job, when our house is taken by the bank, when we get sick and don’t have enough insurance, when our kids are taking drugs or losing their jobs, or even when we are beginning to find life meaningless, these are the times when we most need help.  But when our usual places for assistance can’t help, these times can become the greatest turning point in our lives.    The difficulty is, we usually don’t realize that.

            The world is going through enormous change.   We are finding that many of the old systems are no longer working.  Banks are failing, jobs are hard to find, and depression and anxiety are becoming normal responses.

            What most people don’t know is that these times are great opportunities.  But how do you say that to someone who can’t feed their family or is in the middle of grief so deep that they can think of nothing but that their heart has been ripped open.  How do you say that to someone who is struggling to find a place to live, a job, and enough food to feed their family?

            Survival is our first need.  Many are stepping up to help people find ways to get back on their feet, to have housing, food, clothes, and jobs.

            And then what?  For many people, their deepest desire is to find some lost comfort zone or some imagined comfort zone.  But past comfort zones are never the same.  There are no “good old days” coming back.  There is the reality of an economy that isn’t working, of war, of fear, of problems with health care, of people wanting to kill other people who are not in agreement with them.

            So how do you say to someone who is living with some aspect of their lives falling apart that this is the time of your greatest opportunity?How do you say, “There is something within you that is creative and awesome and vital and alive?” How do you say, “There is a way for you to find a life greater and more fulfilling than you ever had before?”

            If you have found a new awareness, a new way of recognizing your true potential and a way of bringing that potential into your everyday living, do you have any responsibility to those who haven’t found it?  Do we, as a group and as a spiritual family, have any desire to reach out to those who are hungering for something more than survival?

            Our Center, NPUC, is full of people who have been on the spiritual path for many years.  It is filled with people who are teachers and healers and full of compassion and knowledge.  We have a church filled with artists and people who know how to be good friends, when a friend is the greatest need we have.

            With the gifts that we have, do we also have a responsibility?  I don’t have an answer.  I’m simply the one who asks the questions.  Without pretending that we have ALL THE ANSWERS or the ONE TRUTH, is there a way that we can offer what we have to those who are hungering to do more than just hang on to what they have?

            I invite you to ponder the questions and ask in your heart, “when we have so much in heart and mind, as well as ways to embrace the many paths to authentic and full living,  how might we be called to give from our abundance?”  What is our calling?  What is our responsibility?  What is our place in the world?

Annual Picnic

July 23rd, 2009

Save the date of August 9th for our annual picnic.  Special event this year will be the unveiling of our new Unity At The Table cookbooks.  Time: 11:00 til 2:00.  Maps at the church.

Purpose Revisited

July 13th, 2009

Purpose Revisited

Rev. June c. Miller

           Before I woke this morning, I began to wonder.  What is really happening when we come together on Sunday mornings?  There are so many at NPUC whose growing spiritual awareness has been in process for many years.  In past times, the purpose of spiritual awakening was for one’s personal enlightenment.  It was an end in itself.  But is that where we are now?           

             Today is Monday.  After a wonderful Sunday yesterday at NPUC, where the energy was high, the compassion deep, and the joy full, I began to wonder if there is a greater purpose than just what we experienced  together.   It’s easy to focus on a goal of building a church, both in numbers and finances.  It’s easy to stay focused on the ingredients of a service that will best serve the goal of church building.  And it’s traditional to think that the church is there to serve the congregation.  And it’s wonderful to fully experience simply being together.

            But, is it possible that our deep purpose is far greater than we had ever imagined?   Is it possible that the spiritual evolution of humanity is affected by groups like ours around the world?  Is light contagious?  On a level deeper than our ordinary eyes, does the light of one person actually help increase the light of all?

           If that is true, than our coming together has a purpose that encompasses more than the people who are present.  It is possible that when we consciously open to God and open to the light within ourselves, we are actually increasing the awareness of Spirit everywhere.

           What would it be like if we came together on Sunday mornings with full awareness of how we are affecting the world?  What would Sunday mornings be like if each one of us came, not just for our own enjoyment and what we receive from being together, but with the intention of actually adding to the growing light of spiritual awakening everywhere?

           What would it be like if each person who came realized that they made a difference and they had a purpose?  The difference that they make is not just in what they take away from the service and use in their lives.  If each person came to a service, realizing that the light that they bring is vitally needed and actually changes the world, we would experience a vibrancy and energy that is truly the overflowing love of Spirit.  Yesterday morning we experienced that.  And the waves of the light from yesterday have moved beyond the walls of our small building and are, even now, joining with and increasing light everywhere.

The Big Picture by Rev. June Miller

June 5th, 2009

The Big Picture
Rev. June C. Miller
Many people believe that, on some level, we create our experience of reality with our thoughts and beliefs. That is one of the teachings of Unity and it’s the best current knowledge of many in today’s new scientific community. But we can’t take ANY teaching in isolation. If we are to believe that we create our experience, there is a question we need to ask. Do we create ALL of our experiences? Are we fully responsible for everything that happens to us? Does God create in a separate way from human beings? We also have to realize that we’re talking about creating our EXPERIENCES of reality and not REALITY itself.
The universe is vast and awesome. My mind can only take in a tiny perspective. But the picture I see is this. Think of all the stars and all the galaxies – think of the sun and the moon and their influence on our small planet – think of all the plants and animals on our planet. Think of all the plants and animals that have ever been on our planet.
Think of the weather patterns and geological changes that have occurred on our planet. Remember that the sun and the moon and other planets and galaxies have influenced everything that has ever happened on Planet Earth.
Think of all the people who have ever lived on our planet. Each person, their experiences, their perceptions, their beliefs, their actions and thoughts and emotions have affected everyone. They have affected, not just those around them, but those at a great distance. They have affected everyone both directly and indirectly. And they have affected those in the future. They have affected you.
Think of Spirit – the underlying force and power – that is both within us, within everything, and in the space between us. Think of Spirit, before there was any THING or any form. There was consciousness beyond our imagination before there any form.
Think of Spirit, within that Great Bang. It was not outside of it, but as part of it. There was once nothing but God or Consciousness or SPIRIT – whatever you choose to call it – before there was any THING. Was there purpose in that explosion into form? I personally believe so. But that is a matter of opinion.
Everything that has ever been has affected everything else. Everything that IS now has been affected by everything that has been. Everyone affects everyone else. Yes, we create our own reality or our own experience of reality. But it’s much larger and more complex than that.
The big picture can appear chaotic, depending on your point of view. Or it can appear orderly and more in harmony than our imagination can conceive.
It can appear to be going nowhere or round and round – perhaps slowing down and ready to die. Or it can appear to be building and building toward an evolutionary goal beyond our current understanding.
If you can grasp the whole of it, all parts moving together, all parts needed and all parts fitting in and all parts affecting all the other parts –like an enormous orchestra– whose echoes of past sound are still resonating – and the concerto growing and growing – it might help. You can’t listen to one note or even one moment with all the notes of all the instruments and hear music. You must hear the whole, together, in time.
The whole of creation – including the outer and inner dimensions, past, present and future dimensions, heights and depths of it – are perfectly moving and perfectly organized. We are in it. We are of it. We are part of it. We are it. God is in it and of it. God is it. And the whole of it is moving together with a harmony that is beyond comprehension.
There is no outside of it. You can’t stand outside and look in at it.
This is a RESPONDING UNIVERSE. The form of the universe is malleable. Nothing is solid. Every THING is made up of moving bits of energy. The energy can take any form. It responds to consciousness to take its form.
We are the life form of the original consciousness and are each like drops of water in a great ocean or each like parts of the harmony of a great orchestra. Everything we do affects the whole. Even just looking at something affects it. Each awareness we have affects the one who is aware and what it is aware OF.
Our thoughts, feelings, attitudes, deep inclinations, hopes and dreams all comes to play. Each aspect of us elicits a response from the whole. And each aspect of us affects the whole.
The whole universe, or the consciousness at the heart of it all, responds to every part. The physical universe can change, according to the consciousness that is affecting it. It, the universe, responds to us – to our beliefs, to our consciousness as well as to our needs. If we have a need and we open, there is a response. We, also, respond. The whole universal life is a giving and receiving and flowing. What we are open to, we receive. And what we give, we receive.
From deep within us, we emit, we give forth of who we are. We are constantly creating. Each of us has a creative force that is unique. We give out from where we are in consciousness, where we are in awareness, and where we are in our hearts and that is reflected back to us from the world. So we could say that our experience of reality is a mirror, as well as a creation. We create. But until we recognize how we create, we usually continue to hold the same beliefs and get upset about what we see in our world.
Where is God? God is centered in every part of the whole. God is the deep underlying power and source of all. God is the origin and God is the goal and God is the responder. We are a part of God, inseparable, and often unaware of our relationship. God is the eternal truth under, as well as in, all the movement. God is the very breath we take.
We are the art and the artist. God is not creating in a separate way from us. We are God’s very substance.
There are those who awaken to how they create. When they discover the relationship of their beliefs to what they are experiencing in the world, they often begin to make changes in their beliefs.
In the beginning stages of this work, it can be very exciting. Some people discover that they can get a parking place, when they used to drive around looking for a very long time. Others find that they can get over a cold very quickly. And some find that they can have enough prosperity to pay their bills at the end of the month. This initial excitement can go on for years.
One question that is often not asked is, “how long would it take to get where we want to go – assuming you have some idea where you want to go – if we continued to work on each piece as it came to our attention?” There are other questions that are often not asked for many years. For instance, how many people affect us? How many beliefs do we have? How much history do we have?
Changing our lives belief by belief, thought by thought, can become overwhelming. For many people, this becomes a way of life. They simply live their lives. But when life becomes uncomfortable, they work on their beliefs concerning that particular discomfort. For some other people, there is a crisis of faith. They simply see that the work is impossible for them and they either doubt the underlying premise of being creative or they just give up. There are usually fewer who have the realization that changing their lives on their own is a process that they simply can’t do completely. But since they have realized that it’s possible, they continue to look for a way.
There is a way. And to really accept the way takes a realization about where we have been creating FROM. Most people have been creating their experience from the level of their being that is called the ego. The ego is also called the conditioned self or the false self. It is the aspect of the self that took on beliefs handed down to them from their parents and the culture in which they were raised.
But that aspect of the self is not the true person. There are depths to us that most of us have rarely touched. There are dimensions to this universe far beyond what we can know with our five senses.
There is a creative power within each one of us. This creative power is at the core of the universe, as well as at the core of each person. This creative force can re-form all that is. If we are open to it, it can re-create what we have created from the ego level. It can take us to our depths, to what is real, to what is our essential nature. At this essential level, our core, is the very creative force itself. This creative force at the core of everything is the true ground of our being. It is not our form, but is awareness itself. It is the eye through which we see and not that which is seen. What most people know as their lives is simply their experience of reality, which is a projection of what they believe. And what most people know as their lives is the ever changing thoughts that react to every experience, with story upon story about what it means to their sense of identity.
The deep creative power is the very core of everything that is. It can be touched at our own core. This power, often called God or Spirit, is everywhere present. It is in all things and is the connecting link of all life.
How do we get in touch with that power? How do we stop trying to re-create our lives piecemeal and let that deep part of us do the awesome creative work that is possible?
We ask and we open. This is a responding universe. Form is malleable. Jesus said, “Ask and you will receive.” Asking is a form of being open. We can ask by saying, “May Thy will be done.” The deeper power responds. As we are open, the truth filters up through the levels of our consciousness.
This creative power at our core is not an outside power to which we’re giving our lives. It is our true home. This is your essential nature, the core of your being – which is part of the core of everything that is. And it responds.
If you want to know your true self and if you want what is really for your highest and your best, there are many portals or methods for entering that deepest self. But one of the most efficient ways is to turn the conditioned part of the mind over to the deepest mind and power. This power is often called God Mind, God, Spirit, The True Self, The All in All or your Christ Self.
When someone asked Jesus to be healed, he often said, “Your sins are forgiven.” A re-formation of the past creations was done and karma was reversed.
When we ask, “May thy will be done,” that is always for the highest and best for everyone and everything. It is always in harmony with the whole, even though we can’t always see it.
The next thing we need to do is be receptive. We need to ask and also be open. Sometimes that doesn’t need to be anything more than, “Yes, God.” This permission or receptivity is an acceptance, non-resistance and listening. It is a willingness to allow change. It is also a love of the love that permeates all.
In the meantime, the deepest level, God or Spirit is always at work, bringing us everything we need to help us open. It is doing this by synchronicity, by the law of what you do to others is what is done to you, the law of giving and receiving. It works through Karma, showing us that what we give is what we receive. This is an automatic correction system. It helps us become aware of what we are doing and what we are believing.
When we see these laws at work in our lives, there is often a tendency to judge ourselves. But any self condemnation keeps us locked in the same conditioned mind we are trying to escape. So if we look at the events of our lives with non-attachment and with acceptance, even while we are willing to have it change, we are truly open.
There is a deep power at work in us, in our lives and in the lives of all people everywhere. This power is the connecting link between everyone and all of life. It is part of us and it is more than us.
Everything in the universe is working together to bring each person to the fullness of love, which is the nature of God.
This may be too much to conceptually comprehend. But we really don’t have to understand it. All we really have to do is sincerely turn to the highest and the deepest we know and ask.
And from that deeper level we begin to know ourselves to actually be an overflowing cup. We know ourselves to be a channel of effortless supply. Actually, we already are those things, but have not realized it.

June 5th, 2009

We look forward to a rich music calendar in the month of June.

June 7th – Daran Kravanh will be playing the accordian which sustained him during the Khmer Rouge in Cambodia.

June 14th – Carlos Xavier will treat us to the sounds of his magical flute, and perhaps share a story or two.

June 21st – Susan Bloomfield will bless us with her angelic voice.

June 28th – You are in for a treat when Robert Jones, who leads special event choirs at Seattle Unity, will be with us.

May 25th, 2009

June 7th – Daran & Bree Kravanh

On June 7th we will have guest speakers, Bree and Daran Kravanh. She is the author of a book about Daran entitled, Music Through the Dark. It is about how music saved Daran’s life during the Khmer Rouge time in Cambodia. It was a time when Daran lost his parents and seven siblings. More specifically it is about how an accordion he found on the stump of a tree saved his life. Their real interest is in promoting a deeper understanding of life and love and forgiveness. They will continue their talk after social hour from 1:00 to 2:00. Please plan to join us for this special presentation.

Welcome

May 21st, 2009

Our HouseThis is the North Penisula Unity Center in Kingston, Washington, where all are welcome. We would love to have you visit, and to have you call us your, “Your Spiritual Home.”

We are located at 26011 Ohio Avenue in Kingston, Wa.

Sunday Service is at 10:00am

Open Meditation is Wednesday Eve at 7:00pm

Messages From Our Ministers

May 20th, 2009

Messages From Our Ministers

Music Notes

May 20th, 2009

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